The Patience of God

The Glory of God in Exodus 34:6–7

We recently had the privilege of listening to Pastor Wil preach a sermon from portions of Exodus 33 and 34. In those two chapters of Exodus, we see something remarkable. Moses requests to see God’s glory. What an bold request! God goes on to tell Moses that if he were to see the fullness of his glory, it would kill him (Exodus 33:20). And if this request wasn’t remarkable enough for you, God’s response is even more staggering. God actually shows Moses his glory. He does so by putting Moses in the cleft of a rock to guard him, covering Moses with his hand, and passing by him so that Moses can see his back (Exodus 33:21–23; 34:5–7). And when God passes by Moses, he doesn’t pass by him in silence. God proclaims his name, “The LORD” or “YHWH”, and makes known who he is. Exodus 34:6–7 describes the scene

The LORD passed before him and proclaimed, “The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness, keeping steadfast love for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, but who will by no means clear the guilty, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children and the children’s children, to the third and the fourth generation.”

In his sermon, Pastor Wil noted that you could write a book on each of these attributes that God proclaims about himself. Indeed, there have been books written on the attributes of God. Here, I aim to write a little about one particular attribute—God’s patience.

 

The Patience of God

In Exodus 34:6, God proclaims, “The LORD, the LORD, a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger…”. God is slow to anger. The literal translation of the Hebrew here is long of nose. This is quite the word picture isn’t it? It conveys the idea that God’s divine wrath takes a long time to ever manifest in his divine judgment.[1] In other words, God’s patience, his forbearance, his long-suffering is inexhaustible. The very just judgment that God promises to bring about a few words later in Exodus 34:7 is stayed for a time because of his slowness to anger, because of his patience.

We benefit from God’s divine patience in at least two ways. First, we benefited from God’s patience before we were in Christ—while we were actively rebelling against him. Second, we benefit from God’s patience while we are in Christ—while we continue to struggle with our sinful flesh. In short, God’s patience means our initial salvation and our ongoing sanctification. How can a just God afford to be so patient with rebellious, treasonous sinners? Jesus won this inexhaustible patience of God for each of us, who are in him, through the cross.

 

Before We Were in Christ

God has been unbelievably patient to humanity as a whole. God could have wiped out humanity because of our sinful rebellion against him, and he would have been just in doing so. But God has patiently endured humanity’s sinful rebellion in order to save his people. Second Peter 3:7–9 speaks of this reality:

But by the same word the heavens and earth that now exist are stored up for fire, being kept until the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly. But do not overlook this one fact, beloved, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day. The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.

God has set aside a day of judgment for the ungodly (2 Peter 3:7). And God is not just dragging his feet with regard to that judgment—“The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness” (2 Peter 3:9). Rather, God is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance (2 Peter 3:9). God’s patience toward humanity comes to a laser focus. God isn’t just patient to humanity in general. God has been patient with you personally. If you are in Christ, you are in Christ because God was patient with your rebellion and your unbelief. And then by his effectual grace, he awakened faith in your heart. Recording artist and author Shai Linne captures this reality wonderfully in his song “Lord of Patience”:

Lord, we worship You, we know that everything we owe You
And when we reflect on the time before we came to know You
How we were unbelievers committing tons of treason
We had a hundred reasons why we wouldn’t come to Jesus…

We were active in our rebellion against the God of the universe. But he remained patient in order to save. Linne goes on:

…So after waiting with patience as we would run from You
You activated our faith so that we would come to You
Your law exposed our sin so that we would know the danger
And take refuge in the Holy Savior who’s slow to anger
And as our teary eyes beheld the cross of our King
We understood the true meaning of long-suffering
Who can record Your graces? Adored through scores of ages
Your reward is the nations, for You are the Lord of patience

God’s patience means your salvation.

 

While We Are in Christ

But God has not only been patient with us before we were in Christ. God continues to be patient with us while we are in Christ. We as Christians still battle the flesh:

For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do (Galatians 5:17).

And occasionally sinful flesh and unbelief get the upper-hand (Romans 7:19–20).[2] Yet, even in the midst of our stumbling as Christians, even in the midst of our sinfulness that breaks through more often than we would like, God continues to display his marvelous patience toward us. And his divine patience toward those not in Christ and those in Christ is meant to lead us to the same thing: repentance. Indeed, his patience and kindness is what should move us to repentance:

Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance? (Romans 2:4).

So even in Christ, God continues to show his marvelous patience toward us. Again, Shai Linne:

And now that we’re in Christ, the thing that is amazing to us
Is that You still continue to display Your patience to us
Through all our stumbles and falls and our idolatry
Through all our grumbling and all of our hypocrisy…

Though we are imperfect now, through Jesus by the power for the Holy Spirit, God patiently sanctifies and perfects us. And so we actively lean into that promise. Shai Linne continues:

…Oh Father, help us please! We truly need Your Holy Spirit!
He is the only Person who can shape this fruit within us
We praise the risen Savior who is able to present us
Without an ounce of blame, with zero doubt or shame
Lord Jesus, down You came from heaven to announce Your reign
In the hearts of Your people, and now we have the truth
And gladly choose to praise You for all of Your attributes
Who can record Your graces? Adored through scores of ages
Your reward is the nations, for You are the Lord of patience

God’s patience means your sanctification.

 

The Lord of Patience

How can God afford to be so patient toward us and still be the God of justice? God is inexhaustibly patient toward us because Jesus secured God’s patience for us by absorbing all of God’s righteous wrath on our behalf. The cross of Jesus makes God’s patience with us possible, and it should move us to avail ourselves of his patience and strive toward greater Christlikeness. We do not look at God’s patient kindness and think, “This means I have a license to sin.” This is the sure mark of impending judgment (Hebrews 10:26–29).  Rather, when behold God’s patience, we see nothing less than the cross of Christ. When we behold God’s patience in the cross of Christ, we are moved to come to him in repentance. And there in that place, in the face of our crucified, risen savior, we behold the glory of the LORD even more clearly than Moses. In the person of Jesus we see the Lord of patience.

[1] See Jason DeRouchie, Lecture 4 Exodus (Jason S. DeRouchie: 2022), https://jasonderouchie.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Lect-04-Exodus.pdf

[2] There is disagreement whether Romans 7:14–25 describes the pre-Christians life or the Christians life. I am persuaded that it describes the experience of Christian wrestling with sinful flesh at times. This doesn’t mean it describes the “totality of the Christian experience.” For a helpful discussion see Piper on this point at https://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/does-romans-7-describe-a-christian

Representing Christ at the End of the Lockdown

How do you react to our meeting on Sunday morning once again?

Some are ecstatic. Some have concerns. Some will decide not to attend.

All those reactions are understandable. All can be the result of assessing the situation biblically.

All our lives, we make decisions based on our assessment of risks and the benefits associated with taking those risks. Let’s say Frank plans to drive to Atlanta to visit a friend. The latest forecast includes a severe thunderstorm warning and a tornado watch along the route. Frank may decide to postpone the trip. He’ll be more likely to do so if his tires need to be replaced, or if he really doesn’t see well in poor weather conditions. On the other hand, if Frank is not just visiting a friend but traveling to a grandchild’s wedding, the trip can’t be postponed until next week – he’ll be more likely to travel, since the cost of not traveling is missing this one-time family event.

The decision to attend a worship service this weekend is similar. If we are biblical we value meeting together highly. We all long to praise God with one voice. We all have greatly missed interacting in person with other believers.

And yet there is another option: continuing to worship “together” via the stream. While we all acknowledge that participating virtually is inferior to participating in person, we assess differently the added value of being together physically.

There are even greater differences among us on the assessment of risk. We know this virus is much more dangerous for those over 60 and for those with certain other medical conditions. Also, some who aren’t in a high-risk category themselves interact regularly with those who are, and must be especially careful about exposure to the virus.

So we will make different decisions about attendance this weekend – and that is fine.

Remember the exhortation of the Apostle Paul to the church in Ephesus:

Walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace (Ephesians 4:1b-3).

So may we show who Jesus is by the way we are humble, gentle, patient, and forbearing with one another, as we display our essential unity in Christ.

Furthermore, in these trying political times, when there are sharp differences of opinion about the danger of the virus and the usefulness of the shutdown, may we also live out Paul’s exhortation to the church in Philippi:

Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves (Philippians 2:3).

There are appropriate times and places to discuss disagreements about the virus and the public policy response. May we limit such discussions to those times and place – and, in those discussions, may we be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry, in humility honoring those who disagree with us as either fellow sinners saved by grace, or lost folks who need to hear of and see Jesus.

We are called to be salt and light to the world around us. As Jesus is, so are we in this world (1 John 4:17). Let us live that out this Sunday and throughout the time of the virus, among brothers and sisters in Christ and before the world, so that we do all to the glory of God.